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Tuesday 1 September 2009

Life on hold?

I often hear people say that they'll be OK when they've released this unhelpful pattern, been on that diet, when they've changed relationship or job or been on this workshop or seen that guru. It's as if there's a gap between where they are and where they want to be and life will be perfect at some point in the future but not now.

I think it's easy for us to use these reasons as excuses to not take the actions we know we want to take in the world. We'll take action once we've reached our ideal. In other words we'll start making a difference in the world in 6 months time. The only problem is that 'in 6 months time' is never now!

We put our life on hold and find pleasant distractions to keep us amused.

My call for action today is to accept your unique skills and realise you are perfect exactly as you are and would continue to be even if you never changed.

From this place of acceptance take personal responsibility for taking action - and yes you may choose to go back to bed and do nothing but you equally might decide to apply for that job. Either way you wont be using those excuses as reasons not to get on with your life.

2 comments:

Lubna said...

It is scary to take that first step. However, I have taken it. I understood that I was facing a burn-out syndrome and am taking a sabattical and am going to volunteer in a school.
Best
Lubna

Alison Smith said...

Hi Lubna - didn't realise the system didn't tell me there was comment. Will keep an eye out for them in the future.

Sounds like a great idea and ties in with the post I've placed today.

Keep in touch
Alison