tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-81283659589523997862024-03-13T10:58:42.096+00:00Keeping Procurement Teams on track in 2012I've now moved to http://thepurchasingcoach.blogspot.co.uk/ I'd love for you to visit me thereUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger127125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-32115611685887080012012-05-17T18:17:00.004+01:002012-05-17T18:17:44.716+01:00I've movedDo please join me on my new blog:<br />
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I'll be blogging about the same things. I'm just reminding everyone in the title why I do what I do and that's to make a difference in buying, purchasing and procurement activites in business.<br />
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I attended a <a href="http://www.cips.org/" target="_blank">CIPS</a> local chapter meeting last night facilitated by Lynsey & Jack from <a href="http://www.hays.co.uk/" target="_blank">Hays</a> here in Scotland. The topic was CV's and interviews - and whilst I'm not looking for a job, and was there mainly to network and connect, I still came away with many things to do differently.<br />
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One overriding message, for me anyway, was a reminder that the words we use impact what's going on in our head and therefore have an impact on our state. This in turn then impacts our behaviour. <br />
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For example we use the word Interview. Our head may then form a picture of an interrogation. This may then lead us to start imagining angry people shouting at us, all the things we don't know the answer to and/or being asked questions that have us siting there in dumbfounded silence unable to utter a word. With these images going around our head it's easy to understand how stress levels increase and our ability to think clearly starts to diminish.<br />
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If there's a link then to the words we use, the pictures they create in our heads and the resulting actions we take I'd suggest it's useful to be aware when these are helpful and when they're not. If unhelpful we then have 2 options:<br />
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The tip most offered for interviews is to imagine the interviewer naked which is simply option 2 in operation. In the session yesterday Jack suggested we see an interview as a meeting where we're exchanging ideas. Where both parties are checking the other out to see if they like each other. Which unless you also get nervous in meetings may very well work. In a tweet today someone suggested we go a step further and imagine it simply being a chat or even as a party! Whether the use of party works for you is really down to the state the word generates in you and the actions you're then likely to take as a result. I'd suggest a naked party might be taking it a little far!<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping Procurement find the right words when dealing with stakeholdersUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-78185479665250847602012-05-03T10:09:00.000+01:002012-05-03T10:24:02.586+01:00Respect - what does it look like to you?<div style="line-height: 0px; padding-bottom: 2px;">
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Yesterday I blogged about <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/are-you-always-or-never-late.html" target="_blank">our relationship to time</a>. As a result of tweeting about the blog I asked did someone being late show a lack of respect. It was a trick question really because as I explained in the blog - those with a preference for In-Time won't believe so and those with Thru-time preferences will. <br />
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And they're both right - from their worldview anyway. I suggest it's up to both parties to understand the other's worldview. Those In-time should understand that their colleagues with Thru-time preferences may judge their behaviour to be disrespectful and understand the repercussions if someone holds that belief about them. Those Thru-time should understand that those In-Time would believe that their undivided attention in meetings is more respectful.<br />
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Which had me thinking about our values - of which respect might be one. <br />
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Our values are what inspires and motivates our daily actions. They're what determine what we will do and what we won't do. They also determine what we do and don't admire in others and therefore how we judge them - and ourselves for that matter.<br />
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Even at it's simplest level what values are in our top five can and will lead to disputes between individuals about what to do and what doing it means. As another <a href="http://blog.supplymanagement.com/2012/01/what-motivates-you/" target="_blank">blog in Supply Management</a> suggested when I chunked our values into Achievement, Affiliation & Power. Someone valuing Achievement and Success may very well want to manage a project differently than someone valuing Affiliation.<br />
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Every action is motivated by a need to achieve a value - yes even actions that a majority of us would deem to be unacceptable. Which brings me to the added complexity that our values are nominalisations and we each have our own definitions for what achieving them means.<br />
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If I take respect for a moment then it might mean any, or none, of the following to someone:<br />
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<li>Being on time for meetings</li>
<li>Giving our undivided attention in meetings</li>
<li>Listening to what others are saying</li>
<li>Acknowledging you have heard what others have said </li>
<li>Saying thank you</li>
<li>Doing what you say you're going to do (see blog on <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2011/05/who-do-you-need-to-betray-today.html" target="_blank">being faithless and therefore trustworthy</a>) </li>
<li>Being honest</li>
<li>Doing what they want you to do</li>
<li>Respect for yourself</li>
<li>Respect for others</li>
<li>Respect for the planet</li>
<li>Fairness (which I'd suggest is in fact another value) </li>
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The key is understanding that your definition of respect is just that - yours and that others are likely to have a different understanding of what respect is or may not even value respect as highly as you.<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping Procurement understand their and their stakeholders' values. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-27694722468869615102012-05-02T11:43:00.001+01:002012-05-03T10:23:25.136+01:00Are you always or never late<div style="line-height: 0px; padding-bottom: 2px;">
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If I was to ask "which of the following applies to you when arriving for appointments?" most of us would be able to find one that applies most often: <br />
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In NLP there's 2 descriptions used for our relationship to time which help explain this difference:<br />
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Those who arrive early I would suggest are likely to be Thru-Time - thinking ahead about what they need to do to get to the meeting on time but they may be seen to be distracted in an earlier meeting. Those who are late are likely to be In-time - fully present and in rapport with those in a previous meeting but not aware of the time and approaching next meeting.<br />
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We each have a preference for which style we use most but the key is being able to be flexible and switch between them as appropriate. I'd also suggest we need to realise when we've got stuck in one mode and take action, as I think I demonstrated in my <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/tortoise-or-hare.html" target="_blank">'Hare or Tortoise' blog</a> based on my <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/swapping-office-for-farmyard.html" target="_blank">4 day adventure on the farm</a> recently. When I went from Thru-time Hare to In-Time Tortiose.<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping procurement work in and thru time appropriatelyUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-67160991302355068182012-04-26T08:11:00.001+01:002012-04-26T09:04:35.165+01:00Patience and the Important Meeting<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Last Friday whilst on <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/swapping-office-for-farmyard.html">my farmyard adventure</a> we moved some sheep from one field to another. About half a mile of it was along a country road. Obviously when doing this traffic can be affected - which happened on this occasion. A queue of 3 cars developed in the 5 or so minutes it took to move the sheep. One of the drivers asked how long it would take and when told "5 minutes" promptly turned the car around. This has happened before when one businessman exclaimed "but I have an important meeting" and has been known by the farmer as Important Meeting ever since. In both instances the detour taken would have been over 15 mins vs 5 mins of waiting.<br />
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I appreciate the frustration - I've been there and done that. When we're busy it's easy to allow our journey to be the most important journey anyone has ever made. To want everyone else on the road to get out of our way. To make moving the goal - especially not moving slowly or even not stopping the goal. It does however highlight some questionable beliefs: <br />
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<li>I am more important than anyone else</li>
<li>Constant moving is more effective than stopping</li>
<li>Moving quickly is more effective than moving slowly</li>
<li>Others on the road don't have a valid reason for being there</li>
<li>and certainly not as important a reason as yours</li>
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Next time you start to get impatient just look at the underlying belief that's generating that emotion and ask your self about the validity and truth of your thinking.<br />
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Helping procurement teams take time to assess the most effective speed of progressUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-35154886244067855232012-04-25T10:37:00.001+01:002012-04-26T08:33:48.559+01:00Should you be wearing or wanging your wellies?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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On my <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/swapping-office-for-farmyard.html">4 day adventure</a> on the farm this weekend I wore these wellies for the whole time. In fact I put them on as I got out of the car and took them off again as I got back into it 4 days later (yes I did also remove them when in the farmhouse).<br />
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Whilst I love these latter 2 styles they wouldn't have been very useful over the weekend.<br />
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Isn't that also true in business. We need to use the right tool for the job - I'd suggest that's as true in sales, HR and Finance as it is in Purchasing and on the farm. <br />
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However once we've found a tool that work's we can't keep bringing it out and thinking it will work for every situation and every eventuality. Which I think many businesses do with their external spend. You see everyone thinks they can buy and I suppose that's because they can. The challenge in business is they should be purchasing or procuring ie using an increasing number of specialised tools and techniques to apply to the spend and supplier relationships to unlock the value. <br />
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Which means instead of wearing the wellies you might need to wang them instead! <br />
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For more on the #digdeep theme applied to business see <a href="http://pinterest.com/alisonrbcm/dig-deep-unlocking-the-value-in-your-business/">my pinterest board </a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-6073210272764534062012-04-24T13:08:00.000+01:002012-04-26T08:34:51.452+01:00Tortoise or the Hare<br />
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The tractor I drove this weekend whilst at the <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/swapping-office-for-farmyard.html">farm in Cumbria </a>had some interesting images for the gears. That is the gear I used would allow me to go at Tortoise pace, but had any of us been confident in my driving I could have taken it up to a Hare's pace - although I still think that's quite slow. <br />
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I think the images reflect the journey I went on during my 4 day experience on the farm. <br />
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Day 1: Gear/Thoughts 16 = Hare - Head full of what I did yesterday, what we're doing today and how far day 4 seems away. In other words head miles away e.g. I moved a sheep using it's lambs as bait (perhaps not quite the right word - carrot might be better) and my head got distracted and I wandered off to the pen we were heading for not realising the sheep had gone in the opposite direction. <br />
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Day 2: Gear/Thoughts 13 = Rabbit - head a little less busy and distracted. Perhaps the hardest day as the head started to let go of things but the panic around that set in. When you're used to 16 thoughts running around at the same time it's hard to let them go to concentrate more attentively on one or two.<br />
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Day 3: Gear/Thoughts 6 = Turtle - head a little clearer - when we got to the tea breaks I realised I'd not looked at my watch and was surprised it was that time already. When I moved sheep my attention was on the task in hand not thinking about anything else and as a result infinitely more effective.<br />
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Day 4: Gear/Thoughts 1 = Tortoise - I woke in the night and instead of automatically reaching for my phone to see what time it was I just thought "the alarm hasn't gone off so not time to get up yet" and went back to sleep.<br />
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Some people may go on a meditation weekend to achieve a sense of being. Others get creative and draw, paint or write. Others go for a run. For me it would seem - however odd it may appear - a few days hard work on the farm gets me into a state of being. <br />
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What enables you to get out of your head and just be? More importantly when did you last do it and when have you next scheduled to do it? <br />
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Alison <br />
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Alison Smith <br />
Helping Procurement teams find life balance and well beingUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-78953704694000837452012-04-23T19:29:00.001+01:002012-04-26T08:35:58.568+01:00Swapping the office for the farmyard<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I disconnected from the Internet and office for 4 days this weekend and spent my time on a friends farm in Cumbria. <br />
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I'm not sure what I expected - I know a connection with nature was something I'd always encountered when visiting for a day - but 4 days and working on the farm was something different. <br />
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I'll share the learning over forthcoming blogs but just wanted to share the schedule here to give you a sense of what I got up to: <br />
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0830 - feed and water and check the sheep in pens and helping with births as needed as I did with these 2 after farmer Ian had checked they were presenting correctly!!<br />
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1230 - Lunch <br />
1300 - Feed pet lambs. Although this picture is posed as most won't take the bottle like this for a number of days as they need more assistance and encouragement as per earlier picture. <br />
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1430 - as 10.20 plus moving sheep back out from pens to fields or bringing in any in need of closer attention or to access better grass. Ian & Neil shown here.<br />
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1630 - afternoon cuppa <br />
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1900 - feed pet lambs including the very ill ones that might not make it :-(<br />
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When you woke this morning what choice did you make? Did you choose to spiral up or down?<br />
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I'd suggest if yesterday you were spiralling up that today you found it easy to continue to do the same. If yesterday was hard, you felt a little deflated or had let things get to you that continuing the spiral down may have been set as the default for today.<br />
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I've had many conversations with clients and f<span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">riends</span> about this over recent weeks and noticed the same in myself too. Let me give you my example:<br />
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It started with a cough which floored me for 2 weeks - I ended up staying in the house watching rubbish TV, sleeping a lot and eating rubbish too. For the following 4 weeks I was travelling with work which meant living in hotels and spending time on trains, planes and automobiles. The routine of rubbish TV, lots of time alone, grabbing food on the go continued. Weekends were a blur of catching up with emails, housework, sleep and yet more rubbish <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">tv</span>. I was only just managing to keep on top of emails, work and to-do lists. Energy was waning. I was certainly in a spiral down.<br />
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It would be easy for me to simply put it down to (<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">ok</span>..blame) the cough and the travelling and take no action. However that's 6 weeks of wasted opportunity, and there are simple things I could have done, even when ill, to enable me to spiral up. Even if only one step at a time. Things such as:<br />
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Why - because these are all things I've written about in previous <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.co.uk/2011/04/well-being.html">blogs </a>that sustain me and help me maintain my passion for life - even if one day at a time. Do you know what sustains you. More importantly have you written them down for easy reference in times of need and when you've forgotten?<br />
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It's <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">soo</span> easy to buy into the spiral down and make decisions that support that movement. Next time you notice the change in direction go to your list of things that sustain you and make a choice - do one of them or even better do more than one of them. And notice what you notice.<br />
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PS you may like the PINTEREST <a href="http://pinterest.com/alisonrbcm/my-vision-board-2012/">vision board</a> I've just started that acts as a reminder of what sustains me<br />
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Alison<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping Procurement teams to spiral up!<br />
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Image at top of page from <a href="http://www.onyourmarkcoach.com/newsletter/spiralUpAnnouncement.html">On Your Mark's web <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">si</span></a><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">te</span> where there's an excerpt for a book called Spiral up!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-3222093831499748582012-04-13T07:16:00.002+01:002012-04-26T08:37:39.769+01:00Our Deepest Fear<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-o_V7UgllS3s/T4fFEc2ge2I/AAAAAAAAASQ/5inBF8g10rU/s1600/Our%2Bdeepest%2Bfear.JPG"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5730765731107208034" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-o_V7UgllS3s/T4fFEc2ge2I/AAAAAAAAASQ/5inBF8g10rU/s200/Our%2Bdeepest%2Bfear.JPG" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 196px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 200px;" /></a><br />
Our Deepest fear by Marianne Williamson in <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Return-Love-Reflections-Principles-Miracles/dp/0722532997/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1334298004&sr=8-1">A Return to Love</a><br />
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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate<br />
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.<br />
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us<br />
We ask ourselves “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous”<br />
Actually, who are we not to be ?<br />
You are a child of God,<br />
Your playing small doesn’t serve the world<br />
There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure<br />
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We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.<br />
It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone !<br />
And as we let our light shine<br />
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.<br />
As we are liberated from our own fear,<br />
Our presence automatically liberates others.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-76461088932390542242012-04-11T14:37:00.011+01:002012-04-26T08:38:30.193+01:00Disposable Lives<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-H66kZv7AwEE/T4XFENNY0kI/AAAAAAAAAR0/wA45dJDR3Gw/s1600/disposable.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5730202776954786370" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-H66kZv7AwEE/T4XFENNY0kI/AAAAAAAAAR0/wA45dJDR3Gw/s200/disposable.jpg" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 146px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 133px;" /></a><br />
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I saw a tweet recently by <a href="http://lesliekohler.com/">Leslie <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Kohler</span></span> </a>about completion of her book Disposable Lives. It's a title for a fiction book but it resonated for me for life in general.</div>
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I don't have any story to tell or insights to share as such on this today just a few questions:</div>
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<li>Are you treating your life as disposable?</li>
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<li>Are there aspects of your life that you treat as disposable - health? relationship? work?</li>
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<li>Are there people you treat as disposable - partner, family, friends, colleagues, those who making your life easier?</li>
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<li>Are there behaviours that you treat as disposable - connection? balance? honesty?</li>
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Alison<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping procurement offer permanent and sustained difference to your businessUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-5132522191351932292012-03-31T08:42:00.011+01:002012-03-31T13:10:12.721+01:00It's YOUR fault<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-5xwUhaQNaoU/T3a-uivRNjI/AAAAAAAAARc/uPkN8HSmU0E/s1600/Mirror.bmp"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 199px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5725973683056490034" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-5xwUhaQNaoU/T3a-uivRNjI/AAAAAAAAARc/uPkN8HSmU0E/s200/Mirror.bmp" /></a>Yes YOUR fault - Your fault we had a financial crisis, your fault that the UK ran out of fuel at the pump this week, your fault many of our children are over weight and yes your fault that many adults are equally unhealthy. It's certainly not the fault of just one banker, one politician or one food manufacturer.<br /><br />Yes I know it's my fault too - but isn't that the problem so long as we use words that either take collective responsibility or put blame on one person we have a get out? It's no longer something we have to do anything about because someone else is responsible. Don't believe me..... just read the next paragraph and compare it with the first.<br /><br />Yes OUR fault - our fault we had a financial crisis, our fault that the UK ran out of fuel at the pump this week, our fault many of our children are over weight and yes our fault that many adults are equally unhealthy.<br /><br /><div>Which <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">paragraph</span> has you even considering you might be to blame or be able to do something to change it?</div><br /><div>Two news items today illustrate expects of this:</div><br /><div><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-17570139">Earth Hour</a>: Today many monuments and cities will be turning off their power to encourage us all to rethink our energy consumption. How many of us however will applaud those monuments and believe that they've done it on our behalf. In reality they're trying to inspire us to take action. </div><br /><div><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-17560379">Neutrino Scientist quits</a>: Putting our head above the parapet, however many provisos we include in our statements, can seem very risky.</div><br /><div>Forth coming blogs will consider further aspects of this lack of responsibility we all seem to take and look at how we make decisions - because those living on credit, filling jam jars with petrol, joining the mile long queues at petrol stations and eating those cakes all have made a decision to do so. </div><br /><div>And remember it's always others who do these things and not us! (That's certainly what we all believe - if our actions and words are anything to go on) </div><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping Procurement teams take responsibility<br /><a href="mailto:alison@alisonsmith.eu">alison@alisonsmith.eu</a> 07770 538159Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-82408590544568304532012-03-02T08:00:00.006+00:002012-05-25T12:38:08.454+01:00What we can learn from Eurovision and Engelbert<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-uw5BqlWw7AM/T1B_J2VjdyI/AAAAAAAAARE/mINfb_WQuQc/s1600/Engelbert-Humperdinck-007.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5715207734314628898" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-uw5BqlWw7AM/T1B_J2VjdyI/AAAAAAAAARE/mINfb_WQuQc/s200/Engelbert-Humperdinck-007.jpg" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 120px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 200px;" /></a>The shock announcement that the 76 year old crooner Engelbert Humperdinck would be representing the UK in the Eurovision song contest has certainly inspired me to review my business strategy.<br />
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The odds apparently are against the UK because of the voting process. Yet we have proved it is possible to come in the top 10. Even if we have only managed that <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_Kingdom_in_the_Eurovision_Song_Contest#Contestants">three times since </a>we last won back in 1997 with Kartina and the Waves with <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Y6r3JrIOFY&feature=related">Love shine a light</a>.<br />
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Over the years different processes for selecting the singer have been chosen. I don’t think, however, we’ve ever been so surprised with the decision as we were last night. Twitter reverberated with the incredulity and disbelief of our representative. I’m sure many like me where checking the calendar wondering whether April 1st had come early.<br />
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Time will tell whether the strategy has been successful. Yet it’s a great example that if the last time you achieved your goal was 15 years ago and only mildly successful 21% of the time since then that it’s time for a change in strategy. And not just a slight change in strategy but time to consider an ‘off the wall’ ‘out there’ ‘we can go to the moon with this technology’ type of strategy.<br />
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What’s only been successful 21% of the time in your team? It might be time for some creative thinking on what ‘different’ might look like. We won’t know if we don’t at least try. After all the only thing we have to lose is mediocrity?<br />
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Create a great day<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
The Purchasing Coach<br />
<a href="http://thepurchasingcoach.blogspot.co.uk/p/services-offered.html" target="_blank">Sowing the seeds for procurement teams to think outside the box</a><br />
<a href="mailto:Alison@thepurchasingcoach">Alison@thepurchasingcoach</a> +44(0)7770 538159Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-18625160151474535172012-02-29T10:03:00.006+00:002012-02-29T11:39:26.390+00:00Break out of the old<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 199px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5714497084097245906" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UHFBZFDd_A0/T0340j-fMtI/AAAAAAAAAQs/yAq_-m12SyQ/s200/butterfly-jigsaw-puzzle-1A.jpg" />If butterflies did what they'd done in the past they'd have died and not grown to their full potential. I'm not sure we're any different?<br /><br />In <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">December</span> I facilitated a session on keeping on track in 2012. As part of the process we identified all the skills we'd used to achieve what we did in 2011. We then looked at our goals for 2012 and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">identified</span> all the skills, behaviours and beliefs we needed to add into the mix to achieve them.<br /><br />The reminder was that to achieve an outstanding, bigger, better & greater 2012, as I wrote on the day, then we needed to remember these other skills not keep doing what we'd done in 2011.<br /><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 97px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 140px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5714498264057818690" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-m0keTj7NUZQ/T0355PrArkI/AAAAAAAAAQ4/7JnRqD09qyM/s200/009.JPG" /><br />The challenge is we find the old ways easier to do. I fell down the stairs and found it really easy to slip back into the 'misery loves company' energy. Yes I did need to take it easy but instead of wallowing I could have used the time to imagine/envision and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">inspire</span> myself whilst my body healed itself.<br /><br />What behaviours do you need to pull out of the toolkit and start using to ensure you achieve your goals in 2012?<br /><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping Procurement teams break out of the old and transform<br />alison@alisonsmith.eu 07770 538159<br /><br />Butterfly picture from <a href="http://www.mgcpuzzles.com/mgcpuzzles/artgallery/Royce_McClure_artist/art_gallery_one.html"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">mgcpuzzles</span> </a>- it's a jigsaw!!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-7775863464701210542012-02-24T10:46:00.003+00:002012-04-26T08:40:32.858+01:00The right resources at the right time<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6R2er9_6lEY/T0drJRty9II/AAAAAAAAAQg/NqBITQWx8bs/s1600/weight-lifting-1.png"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5712652459461244034" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6R2er9_6lEY/T0drJRty9II/AAAAAAAAAQg/NqBITQWx8bs/s200/weight-lifting-1.png" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 200px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 142px;" /></a>Imagine the scene: I've just completed some of my personal training session and my personal trainer says we're moving onto the above exercise (ish). An exercise I've done before lifting 20 kgs. I take the bar in hand and get ready to start. I notice it feels heavier than normal (but it isn't) and already hear my internal dialogue telling me I can't do it. I change the dialogue and do the exercise easily.<br />
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But here's what I learnt. At the time just before I started the exercise I wasn't accessing any of the resources (in this case muscles) needed to complete the task. It was only in making the first move to start that those resources turned on.<br />
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Isn't that also true in life. We can talk ourselves into not being able to do something and yet that's based from a position of inactivity. As soon as we start to look for the solution we'll certainly then engage the resources we have to make it a reality.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-4539166444899931772012-02-22T17:55:00.014+00:002012-02-24T09:04:35.168+00:00Just simply walk the talk when talking<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pts0N5nZVWE/T0Uy-iRyBJI/AAAAAAAAAQU/Zw-hhgeQ6do/s1600/060.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 150px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5712027752324007058" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-pts0N5nZVWE/T0Uy-iRyBJI/AAAAAAAAAQU/Zw-hhgeQ6do/s200/060.JPG" /></a> I went to a conference at the weekend and the insight after the second speaker is likely to change how I speak, teach and even write in social media.<br /><br />When we arrived we had time to visit the exhibition stands. We weren't there long however. The sale pitches offering us "miracle cures" were simply too much and drove us in the opposite direction.<br /><br />A little later the first speaker stood up and continued the theme telling us all about their "revolutionary" "magic" "new" "wonderful" "innovate" process. The process wasn't many of those, and yet if I'm honest the premise upon which it's based is nearer my current thinking than the next speaker's. If they'd got the tone right they'd have been pushing on an open door. After all they were talking about things that were well within my comfort zone. The evangelical tone, the need to be right and yes even <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">their</span> ego just got in the way of the message.<br /><br />The second speaker was talking on a subject out of my sphere of experience and comfort zone - eating raw foods (to the exclusion of the cooked variety). However my experience of what she said was so different. She simply offered her beliefs as just that. They weren't "new" "exciting" or "something not to be missed" they were just beliefs she used to make decisions in her life. She then just explained how she's managed to apply these beliefs to her daily life. Allowing us, I'd suggest, to pick and choose what we might like to take away from her speech.<br /><br />The message for me was clear - we simply need to walk our talks and share it in ways that allow others to have different opinions. Being evangelical, getting on our soap boxes and ramming it down other's throats and pointing out the error of people's ways wont get us far. As a strategy it will undoubtedly drive away those who may find what we have to share of use if only we'd let go of the need to be right.<br /><br />I then found this quote in a book I was reading 'act and be as though how you are dictates that everyone else will be that same way' by Kant. So if honesty is your thing you just need to be honest and expect others to be honest not start telling the world about how dishonest the world is.<br /><br />I said I'd got a lot from the day - lets see whether you think the tone of my blogs/tweets have changed as a result.<br /><br />Create a great day<br /><br />Alison<br />Helping procurement walkUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-56090118491087129592012-02-22T16:18:00.010+00:002012-02-22T16:42:55.397+00:00"This conversation is older than my children""This conversation is older than my children" said a colleague from 15 yrs ago when we met recently.<br /><br />Did I laugh - oh boy did I laugh. Although you know we often laugh when things have landed and have real meaning for us. It was true - the statement I mean. I had just given an excuse for not doing something that I'd been using since I first met him about the time this picture was taken.<br /><br /><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-EIuM-HiG7Ok/T0UXYr9g8FI/AAAAAAAAAP8/QAVq9N4eOog/s1600/Halifax.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5711997415274377298" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-EIuM-HiG7Ok/T0UXYr9g8FI/AAAAAAAAAP8/QAVq9N4eOog/s200/Halifax.JPG" /></a>The interesting thing is of course the story I was telling myself wasn't true - they very rarely are. You know the type of story:<br /><br /><li>I can't do that </li><br /><li>It wont work</li><br /><li>I'll only fail</li><br /><li>etc etc</li><br /><br />Having the 'story' held up for what it was stopped me in my tracks. It now acts as a great reminder ever time I try to retell the story that the only person who believes it is me. Since it's not helping me achieve what I want in life I have a choice keep it and keep getting what I've always got or ditch it and see what happens.<br /><br />Will you join me in ditching the stories that no longer support your growth?<br /><br />Alison<br />Alison Smith<br />Ensuring the stories procurement teams tell about themselves are helpfulUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-19738905075029349472012-02-17T15:33:00.018+00:002012-02-17T18:27:00.112+00:00Finding the motivationWe know that in order to have the energy to do all the things we'd love to have achieved before we die that we should:<br /><br /><li>Exercise - or at least cut down on the couch potato impersonations</li><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 108px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 135px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5710128736987238994" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qryVq98V_Gs/Tz5z1S3f0lI/AAAAAAAAAPU/mzppSsi-lm4/s200/011.JPG" /><br /><li>Eat & drink healthily - of the min #5<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">aday</span></span> & max #14<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">aweek</span></span> variety </li><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 121px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 129px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5710129991519256290" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-TV85gvfWiRw/Tz50-UXPPuI/AAAAAAAAAPg/18ROuD6jUgs/s200/soup.JPG" /><br /><li>Spend time with those we love - and not just on the 14<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span></span> of Feb </li><br /><li>Spend time doing things we enjoy</li><br /><li>and avoid food, drink, people, places, activities etc that are not good for us </li><br />Yet so often we continue to do that which depletes our energy. Since we know what we should be doing I'd suggest it's finding the motivation to make the changes we need to work on.<br /><br />One <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">suggestion</span> is to find a big enough PAIN we want to move away from and then anything is possible. The issue is often the pain (less years and less active body in our old age) is seen as too far away and even "wont happen to us". So we don't take action until it does happen to us (or someone close to us) or it's too late. The key is finding a pain we can relate to now. That's why <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">challenges</span> such as <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">climbing</span> <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Kilimanjaro</span> or events such as getting married act as a great motivator - the pain of not making the changes are too big and not even <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">worth</span> contemplating that we take action.<br /><br />2 things happened this week that might shed some light on another solution.<br /><br />The first was burning my fingers on the oven. I've burnt my arms many times and they've spent many minutes under the cold tap. This week it was my fingers turn - what PAIN - and was followed by 2 hrs in water. But you know what? I've a new respect for the oven that has changed my behaviour towards it.<br /><br />The second was cutting tomatoes out of my diet for 2 weeks along with some other potential culprits for my screaming knees. Long story short but lets just say that a little squirt of tomato sauce on <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Wednesday</span> teatime led to severe reaction. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Suffice</span> to say that any doubts I had about <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">persevering</span> (It's too hard, I like cheese, I don't know what else to cook, it's wont work etc etc) were soon kicked into touch. Resolve has been bolstered and exclusion continues for a few more weeks to give my body time to find balance before trying to reintroduce foods.<br /><br />In both instances without the physical <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_11" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">pain</span> I would have wavered and continued to do what I'd always done. I'm not suggesting we all run out and physically do harm to ourselves in order to find the motivation. However if you do want to make changes you might want to look for a short term pain that will fortify your will power.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-69948404244943595462012-02-15T14:19:00.010+00:002012-04-26T08:41:19.773+01:00True understanding of team work<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hNwBwP2Z02I/TzvFI8jWt9I/AAAAAAAAAPI/b72r09UqNt4/s1600/Teamwork%252520Skills.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709373710106277842" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hNwBwP2Z02I/TzvFI8jWt9I/AAAAAAAAAPI/b72r09UqNt4/s200/Teamwork%252520Skills.jpg" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 133px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 200px;" /></a> <br />
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There's a card in the <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/services/frameworks-for-change-process.html">FCP </a>process I use that invites us to "break through your closed shell of isolation into a true understanding and experience of team work.”<br />
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When this came up in a session I <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/mail/kot.pdf">facilitated </a>we explored 3 aspects to the card:<br />
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It’s certainly very difficult to keep on track if we isolate ourselves, so too if we experience teamwork where everyone operates in their own silos. I'd also suggest that knowing what we should be doing is different to actually taking all the necessary steps to make it happen.<br />
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What would breaking through your closed shell of isolation into a true understanding and experience of teamwork look, sound and feel like to you? What would you do doing, saying and hearing? How would it help in the current situation? What would you be doing differently?<br />
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Alison<br />
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Alison Smith<br />
Helping individuals, businesses and procurement experience team work and keep on track in 2012<br />
alison@alisonsmith.eu 07770 538159 </div>
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Thanks to the <a href="http://cte.uwaterloo.ca/teaching_resources/tips/teamwork_skills.html">centre for teaching </a>excellence for the photo - there's an interesting <a href="http://cte.uwaterloo.ca/teaching_resources/tips/teamwork_skills.html">article </a>on their website on teamworking skills and being an effective team member.<br />
The insight used here is from the Frameworks for Change © <a href="http://www.innerlinks.com/">Innerlinks</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-23031660292812363252012-02-15T13:49:00.003+00:002012-04-26T08:41:51.607+01:00Just do something different - NOW<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--SBBIn3VQH8/Tzu4SI5u2II/AAAAAAAAAO8/oepznorKf44/s1600/009.JPG"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5709359574389020802" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--SBBIn3VQH8/Tzu4SI5u2II/AAAAAAAAAO8/oepznorKf44/s200/009.JPG" style="cursor: hand; display: block; height: 200px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 150px;" /></a>I had got into a rut in personal training being cooped up in the house all winter. So the first sunny day of 2012 and we stayed outside for the whole session. Fresh air, new perspective - what more could a girl want.<br />
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When did you last do something different?Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-91841356080559440662012-02-01T09:12:00.006+00:002012-02-01T10:06:54.849+00:00Balance in LifeFollowing on from yesterday's <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.com/2012/01/do-you-want-worklife-balance-or-life.html">blog </a>on life balance - <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Feel-Fear-Anyway-Anniversary-Indecision/dp/0091907071/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1328087647&sr=8-1">Susan <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Jeffers</span> </a>has a model that I often use with clients to explain why we should aim for 'life balance' and not 'work/life balance'.<br /><br />The model Susan uses splits our life into different areas such as the 9 listed below (each of us may have different words but she encourages readers to identify 9).<br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-JGpq7AL9D7U/TykFKe8qUwI/AAAAAAAAAOo/kjkAY58AS58/s1600/life%2Bbalance.png"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 121px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704096080705770242" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-JGpq7AL9D7U/TykFKe8qUwI/AAAAAAAAAOo/kjkAY58AS58/s200/life%2Bbalance.png" /></a>Each of the 9 areas provides us with something we need in life. What they are and what they provide will be different for each of us and link to our own individual <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/site/AS_Values.pdf">hierarchy of values</a>. It's this hierarchy and our ability to meet these unconscious desires that will ultimately determine our level of motivation, satisfaction and yes even <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">wellbeing</span>.<br /><br />So for example: Work may give us Achievement, relationships may provide Love, hobbies may bring Spirit, leisure may provide Freedom and friendship may bring Connection. In the short term if we don't get Achievement, Love, Spirit, Freedom AND Connection we we may not notice any ill effect. In the long term, however, if all we're getting is achievement then our lack of love, spirit, freedom and connection will make itself heard one way or another - feeling unfulfilled, lack of motivation, unhappiness and yes even illness.<br /><br />In essence one area cannot meet all our needs. Therefore in order to have a life that ensures all values are being met it is important to have activities in a number of different areas. So work cannot be someone’s whole life – in order to function, in order to get what they need to survive they need to do other things. In the example above they need to spend time on work, in a relationship, on leisure, on a hobby, with family and friends, on personal growth, contributing and with their higher self. It’s not just because other people want them to but in order to meet their own unconscious physical, mental, emotional and spiritual needs.<br /><br />What areas of your life do you have too high expectations of by spending all your time on them? How can you find more balance in life?<br /><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping you keep on track by aligning action to your values<br />alison@alisonsmith.eu 07770 538159Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-26064802382242524712012-01-31T17:24:00.009+00:002012-02-01T10:04:43.683+00:00Do you want work/life balance or life balance?<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-CDrmBLy2nag/TygmCMSMqSI/AAAAAAAAAOE/aCjPKt26YzM/s1600/hamster%2Bon%2Bwheel.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703850747163879714" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-CDrmBLy2nag/TygmCMSMqSI/AAAAAAAAAOE/aCjPKt26YzM/s200/hamster%2Bon%2Bwheel.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Like many people I'd always used the term 'work/life balance' until I applied a <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/services/the-transformation-game.html">tool I use in coaching </a>to myself and realised the term I was using was half the problem, for me anyway, and that was because of the images using that term painted for me and the impact they then had on my stress levels.<br /><br />At the start of the session my goal was to understand what I needed to do it ‘have work/life balance’. As I <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/site/AS_Transformation_Game.pdf">wrote </a>at the time 'like a lot of people I never seem to have enough time and energy to do everything. I feel like I’m a hamster in its wheel. In fact I have two wheels, one wheel for work and one for the rest of my life.' Stress then came from trying to balance both wheels. When on one wheel I worried about the other and vice <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">verse</span>.<br /><br />Just writing that down seemed to shift something. I realised, for me, balance would only be achieved when I only had one wheel to manage. Thus 'having life balance’ allowed me to, even if only <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">metaphorically</span>, have more control over my life and what I chose to do with it.<br /><br />I'd be interested in the metaphors you have for life or work/life balance and wonder how those <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">metaphors</span> may help in understanding what needs to change to simply reduce the internal stress of trying to manage it all. <br /><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping individuals and teams stay on track by finding balance<br />alison@alisonsmith.eu 07770 538159<br /><br />I've shared more on life balance on <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.com/2012/02/balance-in-life.html">this blog </a>too using Susan Jeffesr model as a base.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-22789081995016693222012-01-13T08:24:00.007+00:002012-01-13T08:33:21.962+00:00Wellbeing Champions<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-QK-0qSnVOEk/Tw_rBgLcjfI/AAAAAAAAANs/E44FcvYJ968/s1600/022.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 150px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5697030464697306610" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-QK-0qSnVOEk/Tw_rBgLcjfI/AAAAAAAAANs/E44FcvYJ968/s200/022.JPG" /></a><br /><br />Earlier this week I <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/alisonrbcm">tweeted </a>that 'it's in all the ways we can't see that we make the biggest difference'.<br /><br />Is our quest for wellbeing any different. Whilst we can educate, inform, <a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.com/2011/04/well-being.html">blog </a>and even provide policies that support wellbeing, is it enough to inspire others to be motivated to make the necessary changes? For me it’s all the small things we do and are seen to do that provide the inspiration. As I was reminded before Christmas when someone sent me a note to say ‘you inspire me to live more healthily’. I know this comes from how I am in the world and in all the small things I tweet/blog/chat and share photo's about (as above) rather than the work I get paid to do.<br /><br />In any organisation, therefore, the key is identifying those individuals who influence others behaviours and ensuring they are seen to be demonstrating the behaviours that support wellbeing. Many organisations won’t stand a cat in hells chance of having wellbeing if those with the most influence ignore and override the signs of stress, have no life balance, don’t take their holiday’s, skip lunch, live on adrenaline and coffee when adrenaline is lacking and/or are known to consume a week’s allowance of alcohol every Friday night?<br /><br />Who are your wellbeing champions – and how can you ensure they are able to express how they achieve wellbeing rather than hide it?<br /><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping procurement teams find balance and wellbeing and keep on trackUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-54183734133301300382012-01-09T17:51:00.019+00:002012-01-11T10:20:57.024+00:00TRUST in the Toolkit for 2012<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-NDFptFAMOGc/TwsqJp81xPI/AAAAAAAAANg/aMu3uiE0wRY/s1600/Cirque.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 136px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695692499108349170" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-NDFptFAMOGc/TwsqJp81xPI/AAAAAAAAANg/aMu3uiE0wRY/s200/Cirque.jpg" /></a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Keeping-on-track-with-Alison-Smith/117798091626205">Yesterday </a>I added Excellence into the toolkit for 2012 based on Cirque Du <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Soleil's</span> way of being in everything that they do. Today I'd like to put TRUST into the toolkit.<br /><br />It's obvious in the picture above and <a href="http://www.cirquedusoleil.com/en/home.aspx#/en/home/multimedias/details/videos/6324DD97A28246AA82FB981544A6B51F.aspx">this wonderful video, </a>both from Cirque Du <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Soleil</span>, that the performers are required to put 100% trust in their colleagues - both those on and off stage.<br /><br />Having just finished my own personal training session I realise that they also have to trust themselves. My personal trainer has just added another 5kg to my weights and I was certainly doubting my ability to do the exercise. The negative chatter started as I told myself:<br /><br /><li>I can't do this</li><br /><li>I'll drop it </li><br /><li>I'll hurt myself</li><br /><li>I'll fail</li><br /><br />My personal trainer trusted I'd be able to do it. It was just lack of trust in myself that was generating the less than positive thoughts. Which, of course, in turn made what I was doing so much more difficult.<br /><br />But something changed today, and that's <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">because</span> I didn't grumble to my <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">personal</span> trainer, I didn't give voice to my doubts, I simply told myself I could do it and got on with it. And in so doing realised:<br /><br /><li>I can do this</li><br /><li>I can keep hold of it </li><br /><li>I can stay safe </li><br /><li>I can and will succeed </li><br /><br />How is lack of trust in yourself stopping you achieving your goals and what do you need to stop telling yourself to succeed?<br /><br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping you trust yourself and stay on track in 2012<br /><a href="http://alisonsmitheu.blogspot.com/2012/01/your-toolkit-for-2012.html">#2012toolkit</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8128365958952399786.post-21632800735044022372012-01-09T12:04:00.011+00:002012-01-09T17:43:59.337+00:00Your Toolkit for 2012<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jCsUjsOL8ik/TwrZ8Qfm4JI/AAAAAAAAANI/9HZ5FyIZL6s/s1600/015.JPG"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 118px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695604308006330514" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-jCsUjsOL8ik/TwrZ8Qfm4JI/AAAAAAAAANI/9HZ5FyIZL6s/s200/015.JPG" /></a>In order to achieve our goals in 2012 we will each be drawing daily on our internal resources. These internal resources might include: perseverance, trust, action, communication or laughter etc. The key to success is accessing these resources when they're needed - it's no use perfecting our communication skills when action is required, or taking action when focusing on what direction that action should be in is paramount.<br /><br />I've noticed however that we often react unconsciously to situations using the most obvious resource or one that we find easy to use. You'll certainly find my answer to many situations is yet more communication :-). The difficulty with that strategy is that it often doesn't work, or makes our goal harder not easier to achieve. It's a bit like using the wrong sized screwdriver - you might make it work but it will take more time and you might ruin the thread of the screw on the way. <img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 142px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695603686360842882" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gEo-3Mz3lFQ/TwrZYErxgoI/AAAAAAAAAM8/gY5jO0gU9SA/s200/019.JPG" />This year I really do wish every one of us a year to remember for all the right reasons. To assist I'm going to be blogging regularly about the many resources - tools if you will - that we may have in our personal <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">toolkits</span> but may be wary of using. Do feel free to suggest some resources you'd like me to cover. Why not join the discussion on my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Keeping-on-track-with-Alison-Smith/117798091626205?ref=tn_tnmn"><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">facebook</span> </a>page where collaboration, loyalty and excellence are some of today's suggestions.<br /><br />As a start to your toolkit development you may also like these notes from a session I facilitated entitled <a href="http://www.alisonsmith.eu/site/kot.pdf">'Keeping on Track in a downturn' </a>where the final resource suggested was AUTHENTICITY.<br /><br />Looking forward to a wonderfully inspiring and delightful 2012<br />Alison<br /><br />Alison Smith<br />Helping procurement teams stay on track in 2012<br /><a href="mailto:alison@alisonsmith.eu">alison@alisonsmith.eu</a> 07770 538159Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0